Friday, March 19, 2010

Death Of A Dear Friend...Christa Bowen

I heard this morning that my very dear friend, Christa, died in a motor accident on Monday.

I first met Christa Bowen on the MISS Foundation Forum Boards in 2004 and she quickly became a firm friend, as she did to many people. She was beautiful, so clever, brilliant at her work (an Embryologist) and had time and a quiet word for everyone. But what brought her the most joy and pride in life was being with her family...husband Andy and their six year old twin sons Tyler and Austin. In 2003 she lost twin daughters, Caitlynn and Alexandra, at 22 weeks gestation. She and Andy tried so hard to have their little family...the irony of her being an Embryologist and her needing IVF to have children wasn't lost on her either.

Monday evening was just an ordinary evening, nothing remarkable about it. I'm sure she was just running to the shops to pick up a few extras they needed, it was about 7pm. As she pulled out of the carpark she was hit by a vehicle driven by an 81 year old man, he (allegedly) ran a red light. The force of the collision propelled her car into three other cars. I ache to think of her in pain or being conscious...my hope is that she was unaware of any of this.

"Blondie"...I am going to miss you so much, all at The MISS Foundation will miss your kind words and replies to their posts. I'll miss your quick wit, your feigned "blond dumbness" and your (wicked) sense of humour.

Farewell Honeybunch...our world is a much emptier place without you in it.

6 comments:

Lissy said...

(((Kerrie)))

Sending you lots of love.

We all just feel so gutted...it's so painful...

Kelly said...

ah, life can be incomprehensible sometimes. Words not enough.

Kori said...

My heart breaks for all of you in reading this. I send thoughts of peace to everyone affected by this.

Carla said...

(((((Kerrie))))),

Blondie will be MISSed.

Such a senseless tragedy...

Janice said...

((Kerrie))

MISSing our sweet friend with you......

Fishsticks and Fireflies said...

Oh, Kerrie! I am so sorry for the loss of your dear friend. I know that March is already a difficult month for you, and am so sorry that you now have this to contend with as well. Wishing you much love and peace.